Rockbitch: Sex, Music and the Goddess
I first encountered Rockbitch via a documentary
called This is Rockbitch which screened on TV here recently.
This introduction to a wild bunch of women came as something of
a shock (even for a 10pm Friday slot), but I was immediately fascinated.
Rockbitch is a group of mostly lesbian women who live in a commune
in France. They are pagans and they have polyamorous relationships
with one another. The practise sex magic and engage in plenty of
non-conventional sexual behaviour.
Rockbitch is also a band. For some years they toured Europe, playing
heavy rock semi nude and engaging in explicit sexual acts on stage.
This included throwing "The Golden Condom" into the audience,
and promising to have sex with anyone - male or female - who caught
it. Their videos feature onstage fisting, cunnilingus, and guitarist
Babe lowering herself onto a dildo strapped to a male audience member's
head - all while playing a complicated guitar solo.
Their songs include plenty of provocative lyrics and imagery, and
almost all of them deal with sex. Song titles include Fistfuck
and Whore of Satan.
Eventually they gave up touring, firstly because they had been repeatedly
harassed by police over their performances, and secondly because
they grew tired of the sexism they encountered within the music
elaborates. "We could fill a book with stories, of agents
refusing to speak to our female manageress, insisting on talking
business with a man; of venue owners refusing to pay money to her,
or the women in the band, but insisting on giving our fee to a hired
male roadie - as the responsible one; of sabotage by male support
bands or crew after seeing our musicianship in soundchecks."
The band now only gives private performances.
Rockbitch are, quite simply, unique. Their philosophy could be described
as a form of radical feminism, and yet the title doesn't
suit them. They live their lives in pursuit of what they believe
to be their true sexuality, unchained from the restrictions that
society places on them. In a way, they are tapping into the raw
animal elements of sex; they have sex whenever they feel like it,
and with whomever they wish. They go nude when it suits them, and
sometimes to provoke a reaction (as when three of them walked around
Amsterdam for a day sans clothes).
They take nourishment from controversy, it seems, and yet they are
totally immersed in following their beliefs.
One of these is a form of goddess-worship through sex. Rockbitch
honour their own personal goddess, and conduct various sex rituals
as part of their own individualised religion. This Is Rockbitch
depicted some of these, including a group meditation focused on
two members' orgasms, and an outdoor gathering where one woman felt
compelled to masturbate. These women see sex as a conduit to the
divine, and put it into practice at every opportunity. They also
feature photographic essays of their ritual on the members only
The song Diva, featured on their debut album, tells of their
devotion to the goddess: "I gave my soul to the Diva..."
Rockbitch are a fascinating combination of sex and the goddess,
and I admire them greatly.
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Did you know that in Germany, a man set himself up as a special
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Did you know that 28% of survey respondents thought presidential
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- Karen J, writer.